Showing posts with label allowance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label allowance. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

August seems to be a sugary month for me :)

So in my last post i told you about my new sd C.. havent seem him since i got my allowance but probably will this weekend. Well yesterday i told him that my monthly allowance isnt enough for me (even though he said shopping and gifts are extra) and talked about an increase, which he said is totally understandable since im back to school next month and have books and clothes to pay for. So im happy about that.

Also last night i recieved a text from a former sd(AB) that i mentioned in my first or second post. He was the one that was looking more for a gf/bf relationship and is in his mid 50s. He started off by giving me 500 dollars each time we went to dinner, that was 5 or 6 times, then suddenly stopped. Im assuming that was because he wanted some sugar back.. long story short he got mad because when he seen me still on the sugardaddie site and told me to find another provider(i guess because he was upset or jealous) Anyways, so he texted me last night after not speaking to him for about 2 months now. He asked me how things were going and if i found a real sd yet. I replied that things were going great and that im speaking to one or two sds before i decide which one i would continue with.. He then asked if i could tell him what i was expecting from them (i told him an allowance of 1500-2000 per month). Then he has the nerve to tell me "Well see, we should have done a allowance from the start, instead of you asking for things all the time". His reponse was very shocking to me since thats what i wanted, but i thought that he was more of a gift daddy looking for a relationship (since he showed me is ex gf and she was 22 and wanted to get married) So now he wants to see me again but the thing is he rather give me 1000 a month plus shopping and gifts but i want 1500, so were meeting tomorrow for dinner and he said he would bring the 1000 allowance because he doesnt wanna do 1500. Im still gonnna convince him to change his mind. But if things go well at dinner then i will have two sds and two monthly allowances :)

Also i have a sd potential (ill call him R), he lives in NY and will be in Toronto for a few days. His plane lands in a few hours and i will be meeting him later thing evening. We agreed on 500 per week when he is in town, plus shopping and travel. So i hope things go well tonight :)

Will keep you updated...

Friday, August 6, 2010

Hopefully ill have some followers this time :)

So its been a long time since ive posted anything (only posted 2 things both in 2009).. but i have been following alot of blogs and love hearing about new stories.. So since December, ive been searching for a perfect SD and actually i found an okay one.. Ill call him 'C', i met him on sugardaddie right when i was about to give up on that site because of all the time wasters. C is 35 and a psychiatrist he is my first black sugar daddie ever, very weird to me because i only like white guys.. (im black by the way) but anywho, i met him for dinner at a nice Thai restaurant where he explained to me that he has never been an SD and that im the first one he met on the site :) dinner went well but i didnt bring up anything about an allowance, he seemed like a really nice guy and i didnt want to be too forward. A few days after the nice dinner he went to a conference which was suppose to be only a week, but he ended up having a family emergency and had to fly to his hometown (his week away turned into one month). I texted him a few times telling him to let me know when he was back and that i hoped things were going well. Finally he replied saying that he was just leaving the airport and could see me in a few days.

So i went over to his condo, which was very nice and slowly but surely i brought up the allowance talk.. He told me that a monthly allowance wasnt a problem and that if i didnt bring it up he would randomly give me about 1000 dollars on his own (dont really believe that) and he also said he would love to give me gifts, and if i wanted anything at any time not to be afraid to ask for it on top of my allowance :) We made plans to have dinner at Hy's (a restaurant that a former SD recommended to me) it was great and he gave me my first months allowance:)

So im somewhat back into the sugar world and things seem to be going well, so i decided to blog:)